I'm out, proud about it, in a relationship with my manfriend, but I feel like I left that life behind when I came back "home," for a xmas visit.
I've spent 80% of my life in Pittsburgh. I moved down to Atlanta a few years ago. Therefore, Pittsburgh is my "home" away from my home in Atlanta.
I must clarify that I don't feel like I left my manfriend behind. I've left my comfort zone. I've returned to a place where I was afraid to be gay, or at least concerned and why am I still concerned that a friend I once was closer to might find out.
When I'm anywhere else, I don't really care who cares, as long as that's a smart decision, I like life.